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Friday, May 15, 2009

Not funny.

The day before yesterday I was happily sitting in the garden, reading the paper, waiting for my aunt, who wanted to visit Evie, to arrive, when I heard sirens getting louder and louder. We regularly hear sirens of police cars, ambulances and what have you, passing our house. I don't know why. Well, obviously something went wrong somewhere. But I don't know why we hear them passing our house about once a week, when the first few years we lived here, we never heard them. Never. And then all of that changed. So, either for some reason suddenly things go wrong somewhere up the road, or the services provided with sirens and blue flashing lights have decided to take the scenic route to wherever they are needed. So I was sitting there, enjoying the sunshine, hearing these sirens coming closer and expecting them to pass by and fade away again, when they suddenly stopped somewhere very nearby. I went inside to go to the front of our house where I could look up and down the road if I could see anything. Honestly, I am not someone who runs to see what's happening somewhere, but this could be something serious happening to one of our neighbours. But when I went inside I could see a police car with blue flashing lights racing down the very small private road that runs along the side of our house and only leads to our garden, to the neighbour's house and to the back of a couple of other neighbouring properties. This small road, road even is too big a name for it, it's more of a track, is about 200 meters long and at the end of it someone has placed a couple of railway sleepers over a dry ditch to get onto the golfcourse that runs behind all our houses. The police car raced to the end of the track. Now, this was strange. Whatever could be going on? I went outside to our garden gates where I could see one of our neighbours standing on the main road waving her arms and I could hear other sirens coming closer. Suddenly an ambulance raced past our garden gate, closely followed by another ambulance. Our neighbour came running down the road again. She slowed down when she saw me standing there, with no doubt an astonished look on my face. 'Some...one ..is ....having ..a ....heart.. attack..', she said out of breath from all the running. 'On.. the... golf..course.... Son.. saw.. him.. ly.. ing... there.' Okay, I know I just told you that I am not someone who goes running towards every exciting thing just out of curiosity, but this proved too much of a curious happening, even for me, so I walked a couple of meters towards the ambulances where I could just see someone lying on the grass of the golfcourse and someone resuscitating him. Oh dear. That didn't look good. A couple of years ago I took a First Aid course and I remember the laughs we had trying to resuscitate a doll. But the real thing wasn't funny at all. And I also remembered we were told that resuscitation often does not have the desired effect. I went back to the house again and shortly after that the doorbell rang. My aunt. I let her in and directed her to the little seating area near the meadow. Then I went back to the house to make coffee and cut some pieces of the home made apple pie my aunt had brought with her. The ambulances were still standing at the end of the road. We enjoyed our coffee, the apple pie and looking at the horses and then I went back to the house to make us a second cup of coffee. I just saw them closing the ambulance doors, shaking some hands, talking to the police officers who were taking notes. Not in a rush at all. I guess the poor guy did not make it. And there we were, going on with our little lives, having apple pie and coffee, and at the same time someone's life had come to an abrupt ending. It left me feeling a little bit strange. Not funny at all.

10 comments:

  1. Aw. How sad is that? Well, at least the poor guy went quick, on a perfectly lovely summer day, playing the best game on earth. He had obviously been feeling ok prior, or would'nt have been out. So as sad as it is, we all gotta go sometime, and his departure was probably quick. Sign me up for that when it's my time. No wasting away, no months in a coma, no slow decline, just BAM. That's the way to go.

    Dear God: Please watch over golf-guy in heaven, and please let him finish those 18 holes, because you know his spirit will never rest until he does!

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  2. That is sad. I remember a few years ago on our way home one afternoon. We saw this elderly lady on the side of the road waving at us and an elderly man lying on the floor. We immediately stopped and got out. They were not with each other, she had seen him fall over and hit his head and flagged us down to help. It was outside some houses and some other people came out from those as well.

    My dh and another man we know who stopped after us to help looked after the man whilst i rang for an ambulance.

    He was awake all the time we waited but not looking good. The ambulance came and took him away. We heard later that he had died.

    I often think of him now when we walk past this part of my villiage.

    I know life does just go on but it does make you feel weird when you know what is going on. So i do understand.

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  3. Jewels,
    hehehehe, and he was at hole 15 I believe. Almost there........

    Samantha,
    hmm, a reminder to enjoy every little moment worth enjoying in your life. And to not take up golfing ;-)

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  4. ::sigh:: What a sad thing to see.

    I have thought in the past how strange it is that our lives just go on after someone's death. Even the death of someone we know and love, amazingly. But I remember also thinking before that that is one of the wonders of life, isn't it? That we can face something as epic and heartbreaking as death, and yet continue to live out the mundane, everyday details of our own lives? I dunno.. maybe that is silly. But it seems amazing to me. Amazing in a strange way, like you said, but amazing in a wonderful way, too.

    Also, I sincerely hope that when I die people can joke about something like whether I'll finish my 18 holes or not. If I can still provide someone with a little laughter after I've gone, I think I'll be pretty happy wherever I am :D

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  5. Lady Banana,
    hmmm, weird isn't it?

    Pictureeachday,
    it is exactly like you say, both weird and wonderful.
    And I'm with you on the laughter-thing. You should read Jewels' post 'to joke or not to joke'. I've just told her to read your comment here. I'm thinking of opening some sort of a meet-a-friend-agency online (just a joke).

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  6. At least the apple pie made life a little sweeter on a doom and gloom day...

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  7. Jinksy,
    Life is too short to not enjoy scrumptious things like home made apple pie. Yummy ;-)

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  8. Pictureeachday: Your preachin to the choir sister (or brother? There's that foot again). Carolina... maybe you SHOULD start a blog matching gig. I've noticed lately that half of the blogs you follow are ones I follow.. weird huh:?

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  9. Oh, how awful. :(

    When I was a teenager, an old lady had a heart attack and died on the pavement right outside my bedroom window. My Mum (who was a nurse) called the ambulance and rushed out to help, but they couldn't save her. I've never forgotten it ... I can still see her lying there. I remember looking at her shoes and thinking 'Poor old lady, she'll never walk in those again'.

    Funny what goes through your head, isn't it?

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  10. Jay,
    hehehe, sorry to be chuckling, but the shoe-remark....hehehe. I can't get that Nancy Sinatra song out of my head now.....But it's a distressing sight to see a life come to an end :-(

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